when you require in miracles trust in a witch.
1. you’re not obligated to help people if you’re in a bad place. you’re not obligated to help people if you’re in a good place. take care of yourself.
2. you need to be the most important thing to you. take care of you first.
3. stand naked in front of a mirror every day. touch the parts you hate the most and tell yourself you are beautiful. this is the only vessel your soul will ever have. learn to love it.
4. don’t check up on toxic people you’ve removed from your life. they’re gone for a reason and they don’t deserve you.
5. realize that you deserve people who love and support you.
6. don’t waste your time trying to make people believe you are worthwhile. that’s not your responsibility. if they don’t realize it, then you need to find people who already know it.
7. you don’t need to justify any aspect of your identity. if someone requires that from you in order to respect you, remove them from your life.
8. let yourself remove people from your life. if you can’t, don’t get mad at yourself; you will in time, when you are ready. it’s hard to cut people out.
9. if you’re in a bad mood, ask yourself: how much have I slept recently? eaten? water drank?
10. you’re not required to forgive family just because they are family. treat them as you would any non-related person.
11. understand that the people who have a hard time responding to you probably don’t hate you. they might have the exact some anxieties as you do.
12. learn how to be alone. you will spend a lot of time like this, whether you like it or not. learn to appreciate your own company.
13. know that every aspect you hate about yourself is something someone else admires and envies.
14. you’re going to fuck up your grades at some point. everyone else will too. it’s okay. you’re okay. your worth is not determined by that.
15. everyone who ever contributed to the world at any point, there was a time in their life when they had no fucking clue what they were doing in the world.
16. don’t measure yourself against people. no one experiences what you do, so comparing yourself to them is illogical and won’t give you good results.
17. you do not need to love yourself in order to be loved. conversely, don’t rely on someone else to create your self-love for you.
18. don’t beat yourself up over fuck-ups. learn your lesson and move on. you can’t change anything about the past, so learn from it and go on.
19. don’t change for someone. if you want to change, do it for you. people and interactions with them are fragile and momentary; if you change only for someone else, then once they’re gone, that change will disappear along with them.
20. don’t feel like you have to compromise who you are in order to have friends. those people aren’t friends. they are managers with a list of requirements you must fulfill; they will not love you and you need not love them.
2. you need to be the most important thing to you. take care of you first.
3. stand naked in front of a mirror every day. touch the parts you hate the most and tell yourself you are beautiful. this is the only vessel your soul will ever have. learn to love it.
4. don’t check up on toxic people you’ve removed from your life. they’re gone for a reason and they don’t deserve you.
5. realize that you deserve people who love and support you.
6. don’t waste your time trying to make people believe you are worthwhile. that’s not your responsibility. if they don’t realize it, then you need to find people who already know it.
7. you don’t need to justify any aspect of your identity. if someone requires that from you in order to respect you, remove them from your life.
8. let yourself remove people from your life. if you can’t, don’t get mad at yourself; you will in time, when you are ready. it’s hard to cut people out.
9. if you’re in a bad mood, ask yourself: how much have I slept recently? eaten? water drank?
10. you’re not required to forgive family just because they are family. treat them as you would any non-related person.
11. understand that the people who have a hard time responding to you probably don’t hate you. they might have the exact some anxieties as you do.
12. learn how to be alone. you will spend a lot of time like this, whether you like it or not. learn to appreciate your own company.
13. know that every aspect you hate about yourself is something someone else admires and envies.
14. you’re going to fuck up your grades at some point. everyone else will too. it’s okay. you’re okay. your worth is not determined by that.
15. everyone who ever contributed to the world at any point, there was a time in their life when they had no fucking clue what they were doing in the world.
16. don’t measure yourself against people. no one experiences what you do, so comparing yourself to them is illogical and won’t give you good results.
17. you do not need to love yourself in order to be loved. conversely, don’t rely on someone else to create your self-love for you.
18. don’t beat yourself up over fuck-ups. learn your lesson and move on. you can’t change anything about the past, so learn from it and go on.
19. don’t change for someone. if you want to change, do it for you. people and interactions with them are fragile and momentary; if you change only for someone else, then once they’re gone, that change will disappear along with them.
20. don’t feel like you have to compromise who you are in order to have friends. those people aren’t friends. they are managers with a list of requirements you must fulfill; they will not love you and you need not love them.